Financial Declaration form

Click here to get the State’s stock financial declaration form.

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Parenting Plan Guidelines

Here are links to attachment informed parenting time guidelines. Minnesota, Indiana  Arizona, and Spokane County have well developed and sophisticated guidelines, although in some cases it can be helpful to combine their recommendations. Read more »

Washington State Divorce Forms

Washington requires the use of Pattern Forms for family law cases (except for grand parent / third party custody and meretricious relationship cases).

Here is a link to the official Washington State forms: Read more »

Asset-debt division worksheet

Below is a link to open a PDF version of a center-column asset-debt-income division worksheet.

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When you are ready to forgive

How Can I Forgive You?
Janis Abrahms Spring (2005) (book summary)

Forgiveness involves acceptance.

The 10 steps to acceptance are: Read more »

Responding to Hostile Email

BIFF

Brief, Informative, Friendly and Firm. Here is a link to an article by Bill Eddy about how to use the BIFF formula when you are feeling frustrated with the other person. Remember that everything you write could end up in front of the judge.

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